PLEASE COMMENT!
I really want to know what others think about this, so heads up single ladies.
So a few days' ago I got into an interesting debate about what constitutes as a date.. It was presented to me that any two single adults of opposite gender hanging out together alone is a date...
I objected to this statement and the debate was on...
I think in order to be considered a date both parties must agree and have the same understanding. I think that there is nothing wrong with a single girl just hanging out with a single guy, in fact I think all great relationships start from nourishing a friendship.
And shouldn't dating be a simple thing, boy asks girl out girl says yes, they eat dinner, have fun and laugh.. The end... Am I wrong? I think sometimes dating is hard because we make it hard. We put all of these rules and boundaries when really we should just focus on being friends. My best relationship was with a guy that became my very best friend. We shared everything together. And at the time he was my favorite person to be around. Things were so simple before they got complicated. I wonder sometimes if I will ever be able to find that again. Because I do want to Marry someone who is my best friend. Someone that thinks my goofy and randomness is actually cute. Someone that looks at me and doesn't see a chubby girl but see's my heart. Ok I'm veering from my tangent. So ok what do you think? A date is it two people hanging out? Is it a mutual understanding? And lets throw in What makes it so complicated?
(You'll be the prince and I'll be the princess
It's a love story baby just say yes
Romeo save me, they try to tell me how to feel
This love is difficult, but it's real
Don't be afraid, we'll make it out of this mess
It's a love story baby just say yes)
It's a love story baby just say yes
Romeo save me, they try to tell me how to feel
This love is difficult, but it's real
Don't be afraid, we'll make it out of this mess
It's a love story baby just say yes)
Okay, I agree with you. It is only a date when both parties involved know and understand that it is a date. Not that I would know anything about dating since...ya we don't need to get into that lol. But I have always believed that everyone involved should know where they stand. So my vote is not a date unless both parties agree it is a date and one of the two paid for it, lol :)
ReplyDeleteI don't know I had a really fun UNdate/date last week!! :)
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